10 sex secrets

Wish you might get some more va-va-voom into your bedroom? Paying just a little added interest to your sex life might be all it requires to transform it from so-so to sizzling. “Women place a great deal of work into their careers, friendship and parenting-they read books and speak to other individuals about them,” says Joan Marsman, a couples and sex therapist in Toronto. Excellent sex demands exactly the same amount of interest and education. As she says, “That implies making time for sex, considering about it and generating positive you have enough energy for it.” We asked Canadian women from coast to coast to share their preferred sex hints (but changed their names to shield their privacy). Read on to get inspired, then share your very own naughty secrets utilizing the comments button beneath!

1. Rev your engine
“To get inside the mood for an evening of sex, I commence considering about it within the afternoon and fantasizing about how great it will really feel. By the time I place my toddler to bed and possess a glass of wine, I already feel aroused.” Jana, Toronto

2. Give to receive
“Be generous outside on the bedroom with foot rubs, shoulder rubs and loving words. Tiny signs of affection can make up and put you both within a mood which you weren’t necessarily expecting.” Pauline, Winnipeg

3. Steam points up
“My husband and I shower collectively 4 or five days a week. Most mornings we’re just shampooing and soaping prior to the youngsters get up, however it confident is sexy to determine his glistening body like that. And there is certainly the occasional morning when we get started making lunches a bit later than usual...” Kerry, Toronto

4. Carve out some alone time
“We send our four children downstairs to watch cartoons on Saturday mornings and then we have a quickie to start off the day.” Catherine, Saint John, N.B.

5. Don’t neglect the lube
“Forget diamonds, lube is actually a girl's perfect pal in terms of giving hand jobs or oral sex. Make a huge show of pulling it out and squeezing a dollop into your palm-and watch his eyes pop out of his head when he realizes what’s next.” Jill, Toronto

6. Make laundry day even more entertaining
"Sit on leading of the washing machine through the rinse cycle along with your partner standing up, facing you. Superior vibrations, child!” Vicky, Thunder Bay, Ont.

7. Play games with each other
“We like to turn frequent board games into sex games; every point represents something sexual, like a kiss.” Katrina, Edmonton

8. Connect once again
“About once a week, immediately after we put our daughter to bed, we crawl into our bed collectively together with the newspapers. We study and have an adult conversation that’s unrelated to bills and chores. Inevitably, we start off flirting and getting sex.” Diane, Oakville, Ont.

9. Rent a sexy film
“We subscribe to a film rental delivery service called skinflix.ca. We like a series of adult films named, “For Couples Only”. We've a DVD player in the bedroom and we’ve under no circumstances made it via a complete movie from commence to finish...” Sarah, Kingston, Ont.

10. Take charge
“Confidence is known as a turn-on. If you are comfortable with your physique, you are far more able to relax and have fun. And when you’re more assertive, there’s significantly less performance anxiety for him.” Keisha, Whitehorse, Yukon

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